Starting school is an important step in your child’s life, as well as yours. For both of you, it can be exciting, and scary. Remember that this is a big event, and help support your child in their new adventure. This can be true for older children as well. They have had the summer off, and some children might be anxious about going back to school in the Fall.
Here are a few tips that will help you get your child ready for that first day of school.
- Take a tour of the school. Before the first day of school, visit the school with your child so that the building and playground become familiar. If you have access to inside of the school, take your child to the classroom he/she will be in for a quick tour. Even if you had a tour of the school in the Spring, it is a good idea to do it again just before school starts to remind your child of where everything is. This can also give your child a feeling of security and confidence for that first day of school if he/she is re-familiarized with the school.
- Get into a routine. About a week or so before the start of school, begin putting your child to bed at a normal time for a school night. For a week before school starts, be sure your child then gets up, dressed, and fed like a regular school morning. This is a good idea for children who are just beginning school, as well as older children who might need to get back into a routine before that first day of school in the Fall.
- Practise sharing. Give your child all kinds of opportunities to be with other kids, to learn to share, wait, and take turns. That’s what school is all about.
- Teach the importance of listening. School means being able to listen. Kids need to understand and practise listening, things like: look at who is talking, don’t interrupt, and think about what is being said. Modelling these skills are a great way to show your child what listening means.
- Learn at home. Include learning in your child’s everyday life. For example, a child can practise by reading package labels or weighing produce while shopping. Read to your child. Play word or counting games.
- Develop your child’s motor skills. Children need daily physical activity. Give your child every opportunity to exercise and develop larger muscles by running, climbing, playing with a ball, etc. Smaller hand muscles can be strengthened with playdough, scissors, painting, and crayons.
- Encourage communication. Oral communication is very important. Encourage your child to communicate with the other students, as well as the staff at the school. Give your child the confidence to ask questions in all situations. Let your child know that it’s OK to tell the teacher if something is hard to understand, or if they are uncomfortable in any situation.